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Things I actually recommend.

Articles I've written, books I keep handing out, and a few of my own tools. Everything here, I use with real clients.

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Stuff I've written down.

The things I find myself saying over and over in session — written out, no filler.

More coming soon.

Trauma

After the Affair: What Actually Happens in the First 90 Days

What couples therapy after infidelity actually looks like in the early weeks — beyond the cliches. On the realistic timeline for repair, what the betrayed partner needs first, what the partner who broke trust needs to do (and not do), and why the first 90 days set the tone for everything after.

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Relationships

The Pattern Behind 'I Just Need To...'

When "I just need to figure this out" becomes its own loop. On overthinking, action-avoidance, and the difference between insight and movement.

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Neurofeedback

What LENS Actually Does (and What It Doesn't)

A plain-English breakdown of what happens during a LENS Neurofeedback session — and what it isn't designed to do. If you've been curious about neurofeedback but skeptical of the marketing, start here.

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Books I keep handing out.

Not a complete list — just the ones I find myself recommending the most, grouped by what they're best for.

Attachment
  • Attached

    Amir Levine & Rachel Heller

    The clearest entry point if you've never thought about your own attachment style.

  • Hold Me Tight

    Sue Johnson

    For couples who can feel the disconnect but can't name what's missing.

Trauma
  • The Body Keeps the Score

    Bessel van der Kolk

    If you've ever wondered why your body remembers what your head wants to forget.

  • What Happened to You?

    Bruce Perry & Oprah Winfrey

    A different question than "what's wrong with you?" — and a kinder starting place.

Relationships
  • Wired for Love

    Stan Tatkin

    Practical, neuroscience-backed, and short enough to actually finish.

  • Us

    Terry Real

    Real talk on what it actually takes to stay connected — without bypassing the hard parts.

  • The New Rules of Marriage

    Terry Real

    A no-nonsense playbook for couples done with passive-aggression and ready to fight better.

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A few things I'm building.

Tools coming soon — built from the patterns I see every day in session.

Some links will go to external sites where I sell or recommend products.

Coming Soon
Patterns
Journal · 120 pages

The Patterns Journal

Guided prompts to help you trace what you're doing on autopilot — and what to do instead.

$34
Coming Soon
52 Conversations
Card Deck
For Couples
Card Deck · 52 cards

52 Conversations for Couples

One card a week. The questions you've been avoiding — and the ones that actually matter.

$28
Coming Soon
Real
over
Perfect
Tee · Unisex

"Real Over Perfect" Tee

Soft cotton, oversized fit. Black or cream. For people who'd rather be honest than impressive.

$34
Coming Soon
carry it with you
do the
work.
Tote · 100% cotton

Do The Work Tote

Sturdy canvas, deep pockets, made to outlive a couple seasons of therapy.

$22
Coming Soon
a workbook for
Breaking
the Loop
— jenna cox —
Digital Workbook · PDF

Breaking the Loop Workbook

A 40-page self-paced workbook for the patterns you're ready to actually break. Instant download.

$19
Coming Soon
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candle no. 1
smoked oak · cedar · honey
Candle · 9 oz · soy

The "Sit With It" Candle

Smoked oak, cedar, and warm honey. Made to burn through the hard parts.

$38
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